Wednesday, 1 May 2013

From my Private Blog 8/8/2011

Melinda sent us girls a blog post from a girl who wrote 100 things she likes about herself.  Its from her list 30 things before turning 30. 
With my 30th just around the corner, made me want to dig up from my old blog my 99 things.  here it is:

Okay, so here's the deal...I bought

Swim Naked, Defy Gravity& 99 other essential things to accomplish before turning 30 by Colleen Rush

when I was 21.  A recent birthday of a very good friend made me realize I'm going to be 30 way too soon....So I'd better get this checklist completed.  Every Monday, I'm going to try to work on crossing something else off my list.


Still left to do:
1. Break all my parents arbitrary rules
2.Grow Something: My clinician bought me a bulb for CHristmas, I'll keep you posted on how successful I am at this!
3. Dump Toxic Friends: to be honest though, I'm not sure I have any....
4. Speak a Foreign language
5. Draw and Frame a self-portrait
6. Stop chronic over-apologizing
8. Develop a Plan B
9. Know your friends' family tree
10. Embrace your inner eight-year-old (disney land anyone??)
11. Read Woman's Bodies, Women's Wisdom by Christane Northrup, MD
12. Build a Raging campfire
13. Make the first move
14. Be your own muse
15. Master a signature family recipe
17. Negotiate for something expensive
19. Claim your granny panties....(I may skip this one...where do you even buy these?)
20. Make brownies from scratch
21. Exorcise the words "like" and "you know" from your vocabulary
22. Find your religion
24. perfect your am stretch
25. declare your birthday a national holiday
26. Stock an emergency disaster kit
28. Take your hobby more seriously than your job
31. hook up something high tech by yourself
32. lose your virginity again
33. know your blood type
34. Confront someone who's done  you wrong
35. write a body manifesto
36. have a mantra
37. research your family's medical history
40. Make more money then you spend
41. Be a nudist for a day....
42. Adopt an awkward teenager
43. dress for longevity
46. use a great dermo
47. get over yourself
48. sleep in a hammock...I know right?  I can't wait to do this!!
49. Own a tool box with all the basics
50.Memorize your favorite smells and surround yourself with them
51. Fall in love (or lust) without blowing off your friends
52. Dub the greatest hits from your childhood
53. Care about where your food comes from
54.Fly first class
55. Cultivate your own style
56. Forgive your parents
57. be a dork
60. Adopt another motherland
61. Make a killer cocktail
62. Tie a few knots (learn to make knots-not getting married!)
63. Have your fortune told
64. give yourself flowers
65. Stop looking for a soul mate
66. give props to a teacher
68. be notorious for something
69.-bounce back 

At the time of the post, I had already completed the other 30 things, and as I completed the ones left on the list I would blog about it and then cross it off.

I'd like to just say that I have actually completed a few more of these (of which I've listed below:)

Okay, so here's the deal...I bought

Swim Naked, Defy Gravity& 99 other essential things to accomplish before turning 30 by Colleen Rush

when I was 21.  A recent birthday of a very good friend made me realize I'm going to be 30 way too soon....So I'd better get this checklist completed.  Every Monday, I'm going to try to work on crossing something else off my list.


Still left to do:
2.Grow Something: My clinician bought me a bulb for CHristmas, I'll keep you posted on how successful I am at this!

4. Speak a Foreign language
5. Draw and Frame a self-portrait
6. Stop chronic over-apologizing
8. Develop a Plan B
9. Know your friends' family tree

11. Read Woman's Bodies, Women's Wisdom by Christane Northrup, MD

14. Be your own muse
15. Master a signature family recipe
17. Negotiate for something expensive
I feel as though I did this in Thailand when I was there. On my ring and earrings I purchased.  I thought I blogged about it??

19. Claim your granny panties....(I may skip this one...where do you even buy these?)

21. Exorcise the words "like" and "you know" from your vocabulary
Since moving from the States, this wasn't as hard as one would think.

22. Find your religion
I am finally comfortable with my beliefs.  This has taken way way way too long, but I've made it. Whoot Whoot!

24. perfect your am stretch
While technically, I don't stretch every morning.  I do think about this more often then before because of this book.  I'm going to mark it completed.

25. declare your birthday a national holiday
26. Stock an emergency disaster kit

31. hook up something high tech by yourself
32. lose your virginity again
Fuck this one.  Here's the thing.  I've spent too much time in my life worried about sex.  PIB and I had sex on the first date.  BEST thing I ever did.  I pushed aside worry and anxiety and feelings of how he would think of me when it was over.  I was open and allowed myself to have a fantastic time.  We have had the best sex that I have ever ever ever had in my entire life.  And I wouldn't take it back.  That was a first for me and I will forever be grateful that I took that leap of faith.

33. know your blood type

36. have a mantra
Without realizing it, I've had this mantra for such a long time.  This too shall pass.  It was told to me in July of 2007.  While the circumstances of which it was told to me, hasn't changed much at all, it was the best piece of advice anyone has every bestowed upon me.  With that said, I have learned that in all sincerity if bad times pass, one must also remember that so do good times.  So live in the moment.  Release yourself from the burden of expectations and judgment and live a life you want to live.

37. research your family's medical history

42. Adopt an awkward teenager

46. use a great dermo
47. get over yourself
No doubt I'm humble.  hahahaha

49. Own a tool box with all the basics
Since having this book and this goal, I keep purchasing miscellaneous tools.  Most of which I haven't any idea how to use.  However, I haven't been settled enough in the last two years to actually keep these tools I purchase in a tool box.  Therefore, I am also calling this task complete.

50.Memorize your favorite smells and surround yourself with them
I have actually taken this one to heart as well.  When I'm away from my boy, I have his cologne near me.  When I catch a whiff of a scent I enjoy, I take the time to stop and really smell and remember whatever thoughts come about my brain.  I love this task.

51. Fall in love (or lust) without blowing off your friends
My boy has been so fantastic about letting this happen naturally.  Since he loves my hobbies and our friends are the same, it has been very easy to do this without any expectations of having to blow our friends off.  Thrills me to no end.

53. Care about where your food comes from
I wasn't sure how I'd go about doing this for the longest time.  Mainly because I just wasn't sure how to make this happen.  I'm thrilled to say though, that finally since living here in West End, my eyes have been open to so many things.  Heading to the markets for my week supply of groceries is one of the best parts of my week. 

54.Fly first class
I'm pretty sure I actually blogged about this in a previous post.  Not sure if it was in this blog or my private blog.

55. Cultivate your own style
Funny enough, this has probably happened all by itself.  Just ask my friends.  I'm pretty sure I can say this is completed.

56. Forgive your parents
Eh-For what? 

57. be a dork
A few weeks ago the boy pinned me a computer badge.  (Although he took it away a few days after), This is marked complete.

61. Make a killer cocktail
ladies night is coming up this Friday.....maybe we can mark it off then??

62. Tie a few knots (learn to make knots-not getting married!)
 Thanks to the wonderful world of rock climbing, this came about all on its own!

64. give yourself flowers

66. give props to a teacher
68. be notorious for something

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